Men, what are we doing to ourselves? Why do we seek women with equal or more financial resources than us?The truth is that women should marry to level themselves (and their lives) up. Therefore, they are looking to be much better off once they match.

If a woman already has an education, a great career, and a house, why does she need you? She wants someone who can level her up even more—and she has every right to seek such a life. The average man cannot afford to provide this “leveled-up” lifestyle.

However, there is no reason to worry. There are millions of women to fit into your lifestyle.

Men, you are looking in the wrong areas. Find women who need a little assistance with education, housing, or support.

It’s okay; we are providers. Providers ensure everyone under their umbrella is thriving.

Instead of trying to find a woman with an umbrella (herself), find someone who would love to join your program. My wife and I are a great example of this.

We both grew up poor and wanted to change our circumstances. We built everything together, from our first mattress to buying our third house.

We were able to build because my wife liked my program. She helped me add children to my plan and gave me the emotional support I needed to continue in the Marines for 24 years.

There are so many beautiful women in this world working 2-3 jobs trying to survive. She would love someone like you to provide an umbrella for her.

She will get on your program and make it even better. Good Luck!.