When Jessica's son Trey was diagnosed with autism, and she was learning to navigate new life situations, she searched for books written by people who were also living through it. The only books she could find were written by doctors.

That was fine, but she was longing for a connection with someone who could relate to her family's issues. For a few years, she continued to search and was not successful at finding anything.

That's when she knew that one day, she wanted to write a faith-based book about her family's experiences with severe nonverbal autism and the world of special needs. Many of the experiences she shares are heart-wrenching and tearful, but they are also beautiful and joyful.

Trey is always authentically himself and teaches others what matters most. He is young and has limited capacities, but he spiritually knows more than most educated adults.

His example of love and joy in the simple things in life is heartwarming and inspiring. Jessica tells her painful, joyful story of the many things she's learned from the blessing of caring for her son with special needs.

She doesn't pretend to be an expert, just a mom who loves deeply and who has learned greatly. If she could give advice to any parent with a recent difficult diagnosis for their child, she would remind them that their child is exactly who they were always meant to be.

She would say to love your child as they are and don't try to change them. They are meant to change you.

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