My story is full of "whys," but that isn't what makes it unique. So is yours.

We all have our whys-the things that drive us to do what we do and the way we do them. And we all have a story, or a compilation of stories, that make us who we are.

I have always been fascinated by stories, believing there is value in everyone if we choose to find it and take the time to understand it. Before I could be who I am today, I had to be many other versions of myself first.

So, if you're up for it, let's talk about the twisty, turny, maybe even broken road that got me here. Hopefully, as we go, you will be reminded that struggle is a common human experience and reflect on your own "whys" to use this as a catalyst in some positive way.

When asked, "Who is this book for?" my most sincere response was, "It's for everyone. " Let me clarify: it is for anyone who, like me, finds value in the story and is intrigued by a perspective that sees opportunity amidst chaos and struggle—not in a "Pollyanna" way, but with grit and grace.

It's for anyone interested in the difference between a reason and an excuse, anyone wanting to hear about living through trauma without embracing victimhood, anyone rooting for the underdog, or anyone who has ever been the underdog. Most importantly, it's for anyone who has ever felt less than, insecure, or unworthy and wants to hear from someone else who has been there but chose not to stay.

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