Marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God, intended to be a lifelong union of love, support, and mutual growth. In a world where the institution of marriage often faces significant challenges, and the rate of divorce continues to climb, it becomes increasingly vital to understand and uphold the principles that strengthen this sacred bond.

My recent book, "Say No to Divorce," delves into the importance of nurturing and sustaining marriages, offering both spiritual and practical insights for young adults preparing for or already engaged in this profound journey. The Sanctity of MarriageFrom the very beginning, God established marriage as a divine and sacred institution.

In Genesis 2:24, it is written, "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. " This verse underscores the deep, spiritual connection that marriage fosters, a union that goes beyond physical proximity to embody a complete merging of lives, destinies, and spirits.

Proverbs 18:13 warns against hasty judgments: "To answer before listening to that is folly and shame. " Effective communication is the cornerstone of a healthy marriage.

Couples must strive to understand each other's perspectives, feelings, and needs. James 1:19 offers practical advice: "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.

" By fostering an environment of open, honest communication, couples can resolve conflicts amicably and strengthen their emotional connection. The Divine Purpose of MarriageMarriage is not only about companionship and procreation; it also serves a higher divine purpose.

It reflects God's covenant relationship with His people. In Isaiah 54:5, the prophet writes, "For your Maker is your husband the LORD Almighty is his name—the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; he is called the God of all the earth.

" Just as God is faithful to His people, spouses are called to demonstrate unwavering faithfulness to one another. Why God Hates DivorceThe emotional and spiritual toll of divorce is profound, affecting not just the couple but also their families and communities.

Malachi 2:16 clearly states, "For I hate divorce, says the LORD, the God of Israel. " Divorce represents a breach of the sacred covenant, causing pain and disruption contrary to God's design for harmony and unity in marriage.

Encouragement for Young AdultsFor young adults, the prospect of marriage can be both exhilarating and daunting. It is crucial to enter this sacred covenant with a clear understanding of its spiritual significance and practical demands.

Here are some key encouragements for young couples:Prayer is a powerful tool for unity and strength in marriage. Philippians 4:6-7 encourages believers to "present your requests to God.

And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. " Praying together invites God's presence and guidance into your relationship, fostering spiritual intimacy and resilience.

A Call to Commitment"Saying No to Divorce" is a call to embrace the sacredness of marriage and commit to its success. It reminds us that marriage, while challenging, is a beautiful reflection of God's covenant with His people.

By applying biblical principles, investing in each other, and seeking God's guidance, young couples can build strong, enduring marriages that glorify God and provide a stable foundation for future generationsIn a world that often undervalues marriage's permanence, let us stand firm in our commitment to uphold this divine institution. Let us say no to divorce and yes to a lifetime of love, growth, and mutual support.

As we honour God in our marriages, we will not only strengthen our own relationships but also offer a powerful testimony to the world of the enduring power of God's love and faithfulness. My prayer for you is that you will not be left alone in your marriage.

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