Nobody is under anyone's control. Nobody can make you do anything in your twin flame journey.

Secondly, divine feminine and masculine energies are not represented by gender or sex. Also, regardless of your gender, you possess both divine masculine and feminine energies even though one can have a more dominant energy than the other.

Also, the other thing to note is that you are free to date other people if you want to because you have free will. Meeting a twin flame does not mean that they are your perfect relationship partner.

Some encounters are purely non-romantic. You feel a Spiritual connection with someone but you are not attracted to them in any way physically.

There are so many layers to the twin flame connection. When it comes to the romantic experience of the connection, a twin flame can run into other karmic relations.

There are instances when twin flames meet each other while still in existing relationships or marriages. Remember your encounter is surprising and unexpected.

Everything else unfolds when you are separated from each other. This is when you look for answers to your situation.

You are free to date anyone else or dissolve your karmic ties because you have free will. Jumping into new relationships after your twin flame encounter does not stop your twin flame connection from existing.

The bond is natural to you. You carry their essence with you everywhere you go.

Twin flame separation is an illusion indeed because you have an eternal spiritual connection that cannot be defined by the human mind. You must feel the connection within you first to understand what the twin flame connection is all about.

I hope my perspective helps you. Stay Blessed!.