Forgiveness cannot begin until we admit our own failures. If we cannot do that much, we can neither give nor receive forgiveness.

We cannot receive forgiveness without acknowledging our need for it, and we cannot extend forgiveness without admitting that because of our own imperfect condition we have no right to withhold forgiveness from anyone else. For Christians, forgiveness is nonnegotiable; it is the very essence of our faith.

For many it is because of fear is the reason many of us refuse to forgive is our fear of loss. There’s no denying that forgiveness requires us to give up attitudes and actions that are important to us.

Forgiveness is an act of obedience, not a tool of manipulation. It is a way of cleaning up the grudges and resentments that damage us.

I Forgive You looks into the heart of forgiveness, trust, reconciliation, and how our lives can be transformed by forgiving. We forgive by faith, out of obedience.

Since forgiveness goes against our nature, we must forgive by faith, whether we feel like it or not. We must trust God to do the work in us that needs to be done so that our forgiveness will be complete.

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