I want to say I’m NOT an expert on relationships and I’m still trying to Find My Wife. With the ups and downs of dating I thought the lessons that I learned will help other people.

Over the years there have been a lot of lessons that I learned and unfortunately, they were learned by trial and error. The lessons that I learned AREN’T just for men but for WOMEN too.

Lessons like understanding red flags, setting boundaries, and not losing yourself in a relationship to name a few. On my podcast In My Humble Opinion with Chaz Douglasmy guests and I discuss dating and relationships.

I've had multiple therapists and individuals with psychology backgrounds discussing things to consider when dating. Reflecting on this book I realized as I was trying to Find My Wife I was finding who I am as a person.

I’m a private person but in this book I’m very transparent. The transparency in the book is very contrary to who I am because I’m not a person who just shares whatever is on my mind with people I don’t know.

I’m open in this book because I know the lessons I learned and the bad decisions I’ve made will save someone a lot of TIME and PAIN. .