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BEING THERE: A Memoir of Gay Lives in Minnesota 1950s-2020s

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English
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Independently published (17 July 2024)
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0.41 KG
Publication Date
17/07/2024
Pages
302 pages
ISBN-13
9798324832094
Dimensions
15.24 x 1.75 x 22.86 cm
Reading Age
14 - 18 years
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9798324832094
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Thomas Edward Trisko (Author)
BiographyThomas Edward Trisko (1945-) was born in Minneapolis, Minnesota, to parents of German-American ancestry, and grew up in Hopkins and Saint Cloud Minnesota. He graduated with honors from Saint John's University in Economics and received a Master of Arts degree in Political Science from the University of Minnesota and pre-doctoral fellowship to Georgetown University in Washington, D.C. in Government. His career has included positions as Corporate Economist, Government Affairs Director, Finance Director, Vice President-Finance, and Chief Financial Officer for companies and non-profit organizations such as Dayton Hudson Corporation (now Target), Medtronic, The Home Insurance Company, Minnesota Multiple Sclerosis Society, and The Bridge for Runaway Youth.Tom lives in the Chain-of-Lakes Area of southwest Minneapolis with his partner, John Rittman (and their deceased Basset Hound, Arthur). They have been a couple since 1973. Tom and John have been active in the GLBT civil rights movement since the Sixties. They have worked with their friends and the broader GLBT community to build up the Minnesota community's power and institutions from scratch. There were many setbacks such as the defeat of the St. Paul Gay Human Rights Ordinance in 1978 and the AIDS epidemic in the Eighties, but there were successes like the Minnesota Gay Rights Law in 1993. National GLBT leaders came out of these efforts such as Steve Endean, founder of HRC, NGTF, and GRNL; and the first out MN Senate President, Alan Spear. Most recently Tom and John were one of three couples who sued the State of Minnesota for the right to marry in 2008. When Minnesota voters defeated an anti-marriage amendment in 2012 and the Legislature approved same-sex marriage in 2013, they happily were able to withdraw their "Marry Me Minnesota" suit. They were married at the Episcopal Cathedral Church of Saint Mark in the gay Loring Park neighborhood of Minneapolis in August, 2013.Tom and John both have unusual senses of humor which come through in the banter between Dave and Chris in Tom's novels. While his books are in the traditional murder mystery genre, Tom uses them to illustrate historical and contemporary lives of modern American gay men as they were and are really lived.His first book, "Murder at SJU," was developing in the back of his mind since 1973 and has been a joy to write. It portrays the multi-faceted emotional life and relationships of David White, a 21st Century gay man who has participated in and lived through the gay rights and AIDS struggles of recent decades. David is thrown into this struggle earlier than most when his college years lover, Mark Swan, is murdered on campus in 1968. Forty years later David is determined to at last find out who committed the outrage of murdering Mark and wrecking that emotional facet of David's life. The answer proves to be someone from Dave's past who is in a more powerful and dangerous position than Dave and his friends ever imagined."Murder in the Crystal Court" has Dave deeply involved in the same-sex marriage referendum campaign in 2012 as he tries to solve a murder in the corporate world of 1974. The two are related since the anti-marriage forces are planning to resurrect unproven accusations against a prominent gay attorney in their TV ads and claim that gay people are more crime prone than straight people."Murder in Paradise" A Dave White mystery set in the gay male resorts of Palm Springs, California. Dave gets drawn into investigating the murder of a doctor and the disappearance of a gay undertaker and mayor of Rancho Mirage when Dave's husband, Chris Thorson becomes the main suspect of homophobic detective Jack Faraday. When his inquiries land Dave in Desert Hospital, Chris becomes his "Dr. Watson" as the two of them zero in on two unusual killers who murder for deeply emotional and unusual motives.NOW AVAILABLE! "Cathedral Murder" recounts Dave's efforts to solve three murders at St. Matthew's Episcopal Cathedral while having to navigate the hostility of the hunky young police inspector assigned to the case as well as the internal politics of the Church. Along the way, Dave meets some new gay men who find him sexually attractive in addition to his partner/husband of 46 years, Chris Thorson. Dave also uncovers the emotional network of past and present gay relationships within the Church, as well as the hostility of a few members within and outside that community who make his assignment difficult after shortening the lives of their victims.Tom enjoys reading his readers' reviews of his books and also their Emails. He can be contacted at tomtrisko@gmail.com.Read more about this authorRead less about this author
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This unique, lively and open memoir of gay male life in Minnesota in the late Twentieth and early Twenty-first centuries captures the people, organizations, events, atmosphere, facts and flavor of those gay times. With honesty, humor, laughter and tears, wins and losses, lives and deaths, the author recounts the experience of being Minnesota gay men.

The memoir includes many photographs, links to videos, sound recordings, reference materials, an extensive Bibliography and a Timeline. Utilizing these will lead the reader and researchers to many more materials, especially at the University of Minnesota’s unique Tretter Collection in LGBTQ World, USA and Minnesota history.

The author does not generally repeat the facts that were reported in the news or by other writers. Rather, he only summarizes some of them as background to the untold and mostly unrecorded people, organizations and events that the gay community created for its private lives.

Most are those in which he and his life partner, John Rittman, were active participants and observers. The narrative tells the history from their personal and insider perspective.

There were many more events, organizations and personalities whose histories still need to be told by LGBTQ people in the Twin Cities and Greater Minnesota. All the things recounted in this memoir are seen through the eyes and experiences of one of the first Minnesota gay Boomer couples to pair up for life in the Seventies.

That pairing led to decades of gay activism for civil rights and same-sex marriage. As of December 21, 2023, it has lasted 50 years.

The period in question will stand out in history forever since it was the first time that GLBTQ people all over the world often successfully found their voices and their strength in sufficient numbers to challenge the oppression that many human cultures had imposed on LGBTQ people for millennia. By coming out, gays could no longer be picked off one by one.

Coming out was and is the most powerful action a LGBTQ person can do. As usual in this time, the movement for change began in the USA.

LGBTQ people were aided by the social and cultural changes wrought by “The Sexual Revolution” of the Sixties. After the birth control pill and legal abortion freed women from surprise pregnancies, society was thereby freed to reconsider all the age-old customs, gender roles, sexual sins, taboos and laws surrounding sexual behavior and marriages.

These reconsiderations led the Boomer and succeeding generations to slowly see that LGBTQ people needed to be freed also. Many efforts and strategies originated in Minnesota and spread nationwide and internationally.

Minnesota LGBTQ community members and some of our politicians were national and world leaders in this long effort. They mostly remain unknown beyond the state's borders due to the fact that most histories of the time have been written by people on the East and West Coasts.

This memoir is a strong remedy for that omission of Minnesotans’ roles and contributions to the movement. Writing this memoir was inspired by a request to Tom Trisko from the History Department at his alma mater, St.

John’s University, to do a ZOOM interview on Minnesota LGBTQ history in the midst of the COVID pandemic on October 21, 2021. He agreed to write this memoir after that interview and being told that he was an “original source” of historical information on Minnesota gay history and that the history needed to be recorded before it was forgotten.

The narrative is necessarily from the perspective of a gay white man of the time. Many of the people who were alive then would no doubt have different perspectives and experiences.

Unfortunately, many of them are already deceased. Some of their stories are recounted here.

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